As a Kundalini active person who has been going through transformation for the past two and half year, I want to share with you what it’s like to have a Kundalini active person in your life. During the rise of Kundalini energy, we can experience physical changes as we become aware of and activate our energy bodies. Emotional pain stored within our energy bodies are experienced as blockages within our chakras and energy fields. This can manifest in pain that may be debilitating physically and emotionally.
For me, there were days I was unable to get out of bed, and thought that I would be disabled forever by my Kundalini. I have met and emailed with Kundalini active people who were debilitated by their Kundalini for nearly a decade when they were unable to work, attend school, or engage in relationships with others. Some have even been in and out of mental hospitals for misdiagnosis of Kundalini for mental illness. Our lives can be turned upside down by our Kundalini rising.
When we are involved with someone Kundalini active, it can be difficult to understand what they are going through. Because of physical changes to our energy bodies as Kundalini energy rises within us, these changes can be difficult to manage physically and emotionally. The only way to cope with these symptoms is to heal our emotional wounds within our energy body, and release ego to cope with fears raised while healing these emotional wounds. This is what I refer to as spiritual ascension practice. I wish that I began releasing my ego earlier, as I experienced terrible fears when attempting to heal my childhood trauma and resulted in hurting the people I love around me.
As we proceed in our spiritual ascension work, we begin to go through massive emotional healing and changes as Kundalini accelerates the healing process. This can feel daunting to those who are in our lives since these changes can feel threatening to our families and partners, since we may no longer be recognizable to them. It is as if you are emotionally interacting with a third grader one day, and a high school senior a few months later. Kundalini active people going through ascension work also can change on a dime, and we may love something one day and hate something the next. It is where we are in the emotional healing process, and is not intended to hurt you.
These changes can appear bizarre to others, when one day we want to engage, and the next, we have lost interest. Relationships with Kundalini active people can be very unstable and choatic, until we have stabilized in our emotional recovery, and it is different for each person. Personally, I have chosen to be alone during this process. It can take a few years to stabilize or it can take a decade, as I am going on my third year of emotional recovery.
Patience, love, and support are what you can give to someone in your life who is going through Kundalini. Give them compassion for the process they are involved in and try to understand that they are not trying to hurt you, but that it is the stage of recovery that they are in. I hope I have shed some light on all this. Infinite love and light, Brooke (Copyright 2013 Kundalini Spirit with All Rights Reserved)